Good communication is important for any healthy relationship. Are you thinking about dating or developing a new relationship with someone? Here are a few questions to get you started? You should allow them to come up naturally in your conversations.

Light Questions

1. What do you like to do for fun?
2. What are some of your hobbies?
3. If you received ten thousand dollars, with no strings attached, what would you do with it?

Spiritual Questions

1. Tell me about your salvation experience?  What does Jesus Christ mean to you?
2. Tell me about your experiences with the Holy Spirit?
3. Please give me a feel for the consistency of your walk with the Lord.
4. How important is church attendance to you?

Personal Questions

1. What are some of your strengths?
2. What are some of your weaknesses?
3. What are some of your goals?
4. What are some of your dreams and aspirations?
5. Where do your passions lie? What gets you excited?

Views about Marriage

1. What is marriage?
2. Why do you want to get married?
3. What do you expect from marriage?
4. What is a husband’s role in marriage?
5. What is a wife’s role in marriage?
6. What are your views on parental discipline?
7. What are your views on sex outside marriage?

Sensitive Questions

1. Tell me about your previous relationships?  What were you hoping to receive from these relationships?
2. What steps did you take to deal with negative past relationships (e.g., counseling)?
3. Are you completely free from past romantic relationships?
4. Should I be concerned about your previous romantic relationships?  Why or why not?
5. How long have you been celibate?
6. Do you look forward to a fulfilling sexual relationship in marriage?

Questions Specifically about Moving Forward in a Relationship

1. How do you feel about me?
2. Do you trust me?
3. How committed are you to developing a deeper relationship with me?
4. What excites you about a relationship with me?
5. What fears do you have about developing a relationship with me?
6. What is your idea of a romantic evening?

Blessings,
Wilfred Graves Jr.
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