Question of the Week (04/14/24)

QUESTION: How can I forgive someone who has wronged me?

ANSWER: From a Christian perspective, forgiveness is central to our faith. Jesus taught us to forgive others just as we have been forgiven by God. In Matthew 6:14-15, He emphasizes the importance of forgiveness, stating, "For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins."

Forgiveness is a choice and an act of obedience to God's commandments. It doesn't mean we condone or excuse the wrong done to us, but rather, it releases us from the burden of holding onto anger, resentment, and bitterness. When we forgive, we emulate the sacrificial love of Christ, who forgave us despite our own sins and shortcomings.

Practicing forgiveness requires humility, prayer, and reliance on God's grace. We may find it challenging, especially when the wounds inflicted are deep and painful. Yet, through prayer and surrendering our hurts to God, we can find the strength to forgive. As we forgive others, we experience healing and restoration in our relationship with God and others.

Moreover, forgiveness doesn't mean we forget what happened or ignore the need for justice. It's about surrendering our desire for revenge and entrusting the situation to God's justice. It's also about setting healthy boundaries to protect ourselves from further harm while extending grace and compassion to those who have wronged us.